Preparing for a Korean Wedding with My American Husband, Part 1: Budget, Venue, and Studio-Dress-Makeup Timeline

🌏 Life in Korea | Living with My American Husband 🌏 Language: 🇰🇷 KR | 🇺🇸 EN We’re a Korean–American couple who got married in Korea  May 2024 . We decided to hold only a Korean ceremony, while celebrating separately with our U.S. family with a nice dinner and photos later. Because of that, the entire process followed Korean wedding customs , which felt quite foreign to my husband. It was my first time, too, but I at least had some idea of what to expect from my friends and family. He, on the other hand, had never been exposed to how that process works in Korea — so everything felt new. For anyone preparing a wedding with an American or otherwise-foreign spouse unfamiliar with Korean wedding culture , I’m sharing our full wedding timeline and practical tips by stage based on our real experience.

[Raising Happy, Confident Kids] Infant Caregiver Training (Day 2) Summary — First Aid, Home Safety & Baby Weaning Guide

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Two weeks before my due date, I attended a four-day Infant & Toddler Caregiver Training from November 4 to 7. While Part 1 focused on child development theory, Part 2 covers safety training and baby-food preparation.

The program consisted of two days of theory and two days of play-based classes. Parts 1 and 2 summarize the theoretical lessons, and the final Part 3 will cover the play sessions and my overall reflections after completing all four days.


1. Safety Training: First Aid by Situation

1) Abrasions

An abrasion is a wound where the outer layer of the skin (epidermis) is scraped off by friction or scratching. If the wound is mild, basic first aid at home is usually enough. However, if a large area of skin is peeled off, the child should be taken to the hospital immediately.

  • Gently clean the wound with saline solution.
  • Disinfect with a mild, non-irritating antiseptic.
  • Cover with a non-adhesive dressing or bandage.

2) Lacerations

A laceration is a cut or tear in the skin.

  • Rinse with running water or a mild antiseptic solution.
  • If the wound is deep or the edges are wide apart, it should be sutured at the hospital within 6 hours to minimize scarring.

💡 Tip: A plastic surgery clinic can often suture the wound more neatly with minimal scarring. (In Korea, this isn't as impractical as it might sound if you don't have any experience living here.)


3) Puncture Wounds

A puncture wound occurs when a sharp object such as a nail, needle, wire, or safety pin pierces or penetrates the skin.

  • Rinse the area with water or a mild antiseptic.
  • If the child has not had a tetanus shot within the last 5 years, a booster vaccination may be required.

4) Nosebleeds

  • Stay calm and reassure the child.
    → It is important to let the child know that “a nosebleed is not life-threatening.”
  • Quickly check the cause of the bleeding.
    • If there is trauma (swollen or possibly broken nose), do not touch the area and go to the hospital.
    • If the nosebleed started spontaneously, focus on stopping the bleeding.

[How to Control a Nosebleed]

  • Sit the child upright and place a towel over their shoulders and chest.
  • Pinch the soft part just below the bridge of the nose firmly for about 5 minutes.
  • Have the child lean slightly forward; do not tilt the head back.
  • If the bleeding doesn’t stop, repeat once more. If it still continues, go to the emergency room.
  • Do not allow the child to blow their nose for the next 24 hours.

5) Foreign Object in the Ear

  • Sometimes tilting the head to the side may allow the object to fall out on its own.
  • However, do not try to remove it yourself with fingers or tools.
  • Do not shine a light into the ear, as (in the case of an insect inside the ear) this can cause insects to crawl deeper.
  • Visit an ENT (ear, nose, and throat) specialist as soon as possible for removal.

6) Ear Pain

  • If a child complains of ear pain, it is often due to infection, so they should be taken to an ENT clinic promptly.

7) When a Tooth Is Knocked Out or Broken

  • A knocked-out tooth, especially a permanent tooth, should be carefully preserved.

[How to Respond by Age]
  • Older child (unlikely to swallow the tooth)
    • Gently place the tooth back into the socket and have the child bite down to hold it in place while going to the dentist.
    • If reinsertion is not possible, place the tooth inside the child’s mouth (between cheek and gum or under the tongue) and go to the dentist. Make sure the child understands not to swallow the tooth.
  • Younger child (risk of swallowing the tooth)
    • Place the tooth in saliva, milk, or clean water and take it to the dentist as soon as possible.


8) Burns

Burns are the second leading cause of death after car accidents in children aged 1–4. Most burns in young children are caused by heat (fire, hot water, hot surfaces, etc.) rather than chemicals or electricity.

  • Cool the burned area immediately with cold water or a cold compress.
    • Hands and feet: immerse directly in cool running water.
    • Face and body: use a clean cloth soaked in cool water.
  • Do not burst blisters.
  • Do not apply ointment, soy sauce, miso paste, or home remedies — these can increase the risk of infection.

💡 Tip: When hot water is spilled over clothing

  • Cut or carefully remove the clothing and rinse with cool water.
  • If the clothing is stuck to the burn, do not peel it off.
  • Go immediately to an emergency room or a burn clinic.


9) Choking & Strangulation Risks

  • Infants under 1 year old are especially vulnerable because they cannot free themselves if something wraps around their neck.
  • Do not give children cords, strings, or toys that can become tangled around the neck.
  • Use a mattress that fits the crib exactly, leaving no gap on the horizontal surface between the mattress and the crib's frame. This way, the the baby’s head cannot get trapped hanging down off the edge of the mattress.
  • Large cushions can be dangerous if a baby rolls onto them and gets stuck underneath, especially once they start rolling over.


10) Aspiration of Foreign Objects

  • Objects like safety pins, coins, peanuts, and beans are common choking hazards for children aged 2–4 years.
  • Children are very likely to put small objects not only in their mouth, but also in their nose or ears.
  • If a child has swallowed something and their breathing becomes unusually quiet, do not try to remove the object with your fingers — take them to the hospital immediately.
  • Never put your finger into the child’s throat to “scoop” out an object.

⚠️ It is highly recommended to learn CPR and the Heimlich maneuver in advance.
→ These are often taught at local fire stations or public health centers.

Abdominal thrusts for infants under 1 year


11) Poisoning

  • Poisoning often occurs when children ingest dish soap, detergents, medicines, vitamins, or mineral supplements.
  • It is especially common in children aged 1–2 years, so extra caution is needed.
  • Store medicines and cleaning products out of children’s reach and in their original containers.

[What to Bring When Going to the Hospital]

  • The substance that was ingested (e.g., the actual detergent bottle)
  • Any vomit the child produced (if possible)
  • The time of ingestion
  • The estimated amount taken

[Tips to Prevent Poisoning]

  • Do not transfer detergents or chemicals into “pretty bottles” — children may mistake them for drinks or candy.
  • Use child-resistant caps whenever possible.
  • Always keep an eye on what your child is doing.


12) When Your Child Has a Fever

  • When a child has a fever, it is more important to find the cause of the fever than to focus only on the temperature number.
  • A mild fever can actually help the immune system, so there is no need to panic immediately.

[Fever Thresholds]

  • Armpit temperature: 37°C (98.6°F) or higher
  • Oral temperature: 37.5°C (99.5°F) or higher
  • Rectal temperature: 38°C (100.4°F) or higher

[Signs Your Child May Have a Fever]

  • The child is unusually quiet or tired.
  • The eyes look teary or glassy.
  • The face looks pale and the skin feels rough.
  • The child is cranky or out of sorts.
  • Sometimes the body shivers and the lips appear dry.

[How to Care for a Child with a Fever]

  • Do not rely on giving fever medicine repeatedly as the only response.
  • Once the child no longer feels cold and the fever has peaked, gently wipe the body with a lukewarm wet towel.
  • Offer fluids in small, frequent sips — too much at once may cause vomiting.
  • Provide foods the child usually eats well, in small, frequent portions to maintain nutrition.
  • Avoid baths and let the child rest as much as possible.


13) Preparing for Emergencies

① Keep a First-Aid Kit at Home

  • Store it away from direct sunlight and moisture, and out of children’s reach.
  • Check and replace contents once a year (and note the check date).
  • Store items like suppository fever reducers and ice packs in the refrigerator if needed.

② Priority Steps in an Emergency

  • Step 1. Stay calm, assess the situation, and reassure the child.
  • Step 2. Secure the area and move the child to a safe place.
  • Step 3. Provide appropriate first aid.
  • Step 4. Call for help (e.g., emergency services).

③ Emergency Medical Hotline (Korea)
📞 1339



2. Safety Training: Preventing Home Accidents

1) Living Room

  • Never hang heavy objects on the wall where they could fall.
  • Use doors or curtains to block access to shelves or areas with dangerous items.
  • Do not place objects on window sills.
  • Attach stickers to glass doors so it is clear that there is glass there.


2) Furniture & Appliances

  • Attach corner protectors to sharp table and bed corners.
  • Cover electrical outlets with outlet safety covers.
  • Do not leave appliances running unattended (e.g., rice cooker, electric pot).
  • Avoid using unstable or wheeled furniture that can roll or tip easily.
  • Place potted plants and leaves out of children’s reach.


3) Kitchen

  • Do not use tablecloths that children can pull down, pulling down everything atop it.
  • When cooking, always turn pot handles toward the inside of the stove.
  • Install child locks on the sink cabinet and refrigerator doors.
  • Do not place plates or hot food on the edge of the table or counter.


4) Bathroom

  • Empty the trash bin regularly or remove it altogether.
  • Do not keep cosmetics, cups, or glass items on top of the sink or toilet tank.
  • Keep the faucet lever turned to the cold side when not in use to prevent sudden hot-water burns.
  • Use non-slip stickers or anti-slip spray on the bathroom floor.


5) Other Safety Tips

  • Install door pinch guards to prevent little fingers from getting caught.
  • Store cords and strings tied up and out of sight.
  • Plastic bags pose a suffocation risk — never let children play with them.
  • Always pick up small objects (beans, coins, buttons, safety pins, etc.) from the floor.


3. Weaning (Complementary Feeding)

1) Why Weaning Matters

“Weaning” means gradually introducing semi-solid and solid foods to a baby who previously had only breast milk or formula, helping them transition toward a regular family diet. Typically, we move through stages, starting from around 4-6 months: thin porridge → thicker porridge → soft chunks.

It’s more than just “starting solids” —
👉 It is a key developmental step toward healthy lifelong eating habits.


[Why Weaning Is Important]

  • Supplements nutrients that breast milk or formula alone cannot fully provide.
  • Supports tooth development and trains chewing and swallowing.
  • Helps build lifelong eating patterns and food preferences.

2) How to Feed Weaning Foods

  • Offer only one new ingredient at a time (to check for allergies).
  • Give the same food for 3–4 meals, then switch to another ingredient.
    • Use a variety of foods, but let the baby taste one clear flavor at a time.
    • Example: rice porridge 3 times → sweet potato porridge 3 times → cabbage porridge 3 times.
  • Serve weaning meals at consistent times.
  • Always use a spoon (no bottles for porridge — babies need to get used to the feel of a spoon).
  • Seat the baby upright and encourage self-feeding as they grow.

3) Stages of Weaning

① Early Weaning (4–6 months): Thin Porridge Stage

  • Formula-fed babies: can usually start around 4 months.
  • Breastfed babies or babies with skin conditions: often start around 6 months.
  • Begin with thin, carbohydrate-based porridges and mashed vegetables or fruits.

[Guidelines for Early Weaning]

  • Offer solids when the baby is in a good mood.
  • Try around 10 a.m., before a usual milk feed when the baby is somewhat hungry.
  • Start with one small teaspoon and gradually increase the amount.
  • Once solids are taken regularly, adjust milk feeds so that intervals become about 4 hours, and gradually reduce night feeds.
  • Use a spoon that is not too deep, and bring it toward the lips at a right angle.
Sample early weaning menu

② Middle Weaning (7–8 months): Semi-Solid Stage

  • Front teeth and molars begin to appear.
  • The baby starts to crush food and move it around the mouth while chewing.
  • Cut or mince food into pieces about 3 mm in size.

[Guidelines for Middle Weaning]

  • Offer meals 2–3 times a day, around 10 a.m. or 2 p.m.
    • These times match higher activity levels and natural appetite.
  • Allow enough time so the baby can chew slowly and explore the texture.
Sample middle weaning menu

③ Late Weaning (9–12 months): Soft Solid Stage

  • The digestive system and eating skills develop significantly.
  • Molars start to come in, and chewing improves.
  • Cut or chop foods into 3–5 mm pieces and offer a wider variety.

[Guidelines for Late Weaning]

  • Align meals with the family’s regular schedule (breakfast, lunch, and dinner).
  • Encourage the baby to practice using a spoon and cup, even if it’s messy.
Sample late weaning menu

④ Weaning Completion (1–2 years): Joining the Family Table

  • Digestive enzymes are mostly mature, so children can eat a wide variety of foods.
  • Except for the very back molars, most baby teeth have come in.
  • Children in this age range need a lot of nutrients but still have small stomachs, so healthy snacks are important.

[Snack Ideas]
Milk, plain yogurt, fruit, and cheese once or twice a day
(e.g., breakfast – snack – lunch – snack – dinner)

[Weaning Completion Guidelines]

  • Help your child build the habit of chewing rice and side dishes thoroughly.
  • If they prefer only very soft foods, gradually introduce different textures and teach them to enjoy chewing.


The babysitter training course was a total of four days. This post summarized the main topics from Day 2 (first aid, home safety, and weaning).

In the next part (Day 3), I’ll share what I learned from the play sessions and practical activities.

👉 Read Day 1: Infant Development & Brain, Language, Cognition

👉 Read Day 3: Play Class Recap

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